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Bustle in your hedgerow

We live in an age of entitlement to the perfect life. We are forever inundated with images of who we...
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The many steps to finding you: Step 6

Step 6: Ensure there is matched effort, or walk away with grace. I met him online of course. His name...
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The many steps to finding you: Step 5

Step 5: Stop believing in miracles I arrived in New York at the beginning of June at around 4pm. It...
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The many steps to finding you: Step 4

Step 4: If you can't beat them, join them Actually: When the trust is gone, the relationship is over There...
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Getting kidnapped and eating cockroaches in Bangkok

I was very excited to be heading to Bangkok.  It was one of those places I knew had a well-defined...
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Impromptu trip to Phuket

The 27th December 2018 was the day I almost went to the Philippines.  My friends and I virtually slid out...
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The many steps to finding you: Step 3

Step 3:  Any experience is good, just pick someone for now Actually:  Be careful who you let into your life....
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The many steps to finding you: Step 2

Step 2: Lower your standards. Actually: Judge a man by how he treats you, first and foremost. Emotional unavailability.  This is a...
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The many steps to finding you: Step 1

Step 1:  Think and ruminate on the unfairness and deficiency of love all the time. Actually:  Adopt a business approach....
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Number Three:  The first thing I thought when you took your hat off and stared with your cold grey eyes...
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Stars vs feet

When you're rejected in love, I encourage you - and in fact you must - remind yourself why you're loveable. ...
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Corporate voice

It's funny because people who work in retail generally do have a "retail voice" which is distinctly different from their...
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From my broken heart

This is a work of fiction My heart defect became evident when I was very young. I remember bouncing off...
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Disconnection and disillusion

If you're rejected and isolated, your need for connection grows stronger, and you seek out that connection in other ways,...
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To all the women: stay soft

There's no doubt that women are breaking down the walls in various ways all over the world.  We've made progress,...
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Sydney and self love

When loneliness hits life becomes miserable.  I heard today that the UK has introduced a Minister for Loneliness.  Apart from...
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Connection of the Seoul

Birthing is hard, and dying is mean. So get yourself a little loving, in between. - Langston Hughes As mentioned, London...
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London

When I was in London a few years ago, I was on fire.  I got lucky with London when I...
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Istanbul

I smashed my phone in some strange gym equipment and was also told I could do with losing 4kg by...
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Amsterdam

I have been in Amsterdam for two days. The bad drug experiences have already began.  I straight weed from Snoop...
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Toulouse

Toulouse is sweet. It's not particularly scenic, though. The bikes and crepes give that lovely French feeling. It is nice...
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Andorra

I'm lying in bed listening to the Schindler's List soundtrack with croissants of various sorts beside me. Many people may...
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Barcelona

I feel more comfortable in Europe than I did in Japan. It's not that I was uncomfortable in Japan, it's just...
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Japan

I am currently sitting in the Krisflyer Business Class lounge of Changi Airport. I flew in from Japan to here...
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Loneliness part 2

When I wrote that pitch about loneliness, I was alone. Tonight I went to an event in Surry Hills -...
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Loneliness

You wake up on a Saturday morning and crave the feeling of inclusion and familiarity. You make coffee, read a...
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Keep digging

I think that what people fear most is a lack and loss of connection and meaning. I have been living...
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Singapore

I am currently sitting in the club lounge of the Ritz-Carlton Millenia, situated on the 32nd floor. I've met my...
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Australia

Australia is a beautiful country, but I can’t say it has ever especially resonated with me. It is too casual,...
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